The first pots I ever gave consideration to
where a guy who wanted me to join him in Greece on a business trip to get to
know him and a guy from Belgium.
The first told me that he really liked me
and wanted me to fly to Greece and join him on a business trip, he was married
so probably could only meet SBs during his business trips, he offered me a
flight to Athens and my own hotel room plus 2000 dollars for shopping, just to
get to know each other. He said that if then we wanted to start an arrangement
he would take care of me.
I would be his second SB, as his first
couldn’t always join him, he said that his current SB got an allowance,
shopping, a car etc.
Everything sounded good but he was quite
rushing and I really didn’t feel like getting on a plane and flying to another
country for my first ever meeting of a pot from SA.
He said that if I change my mind to let him
know, so I guess I can always get back in touch with him if all else fails.
The second is a CEO and founder of an international
company; he also has positions with other companies. He immediately sent me a
link to a webpage that had all his professional info, his name and his picture.
I liked this as he showed me he was for real and I was able to Google him.
(Jess Bunny used to say that your pot should be googable).
His net worth is listed at 100million+ and
his annual income is more than 1million a year. He lives in central Europe and
I know he has an apartment in NY (upper east side).
So I exchanged some emails with him and he
told me he would be in my country doing business for a day, so we decided to
meet for a coffee.
I travelled by train to the city he was
going to be in and we met at a very fancy 5 star hotel and had our meeting in
the hotel bar. He seemed nice and he told me about past experiences, I think he
liked me but we haven’t discussed allowance, I know he has lots of money but we
haven’t gone into detail. I am just wondering however if I really like him.
Ideally I would love to have just one SD and I want him to be the perfect one:
Like Jess Bunny.
Also something that put me off him was that
to reach him I ended up spending money on train fairs that I couldn’t really
afford to spend, and at the meeting he gave me nothing. I know for a fact that
sometimes pots will give the girls a gift even at a first meeting, so I was a
bit put off.
I mentioned this and he asked for my PayPal
account and then asked me for the amount I spent (I can’t believe he asked me
for the amount of the train ticket) anyway he still hasn’t sent it to me and if
I was to receive the exact amount and no more it would give me the impression
of him not being very generous.
So this guy could be my potential SD and
I’ll call him mister B (Belgium) but after that meeting I decided that I wanted
to give an extra look at what’s out there…
To be continued…
Take it from an experienced SD: just because someone has money doesn't mean they are generois people. Or maybe they are generous to their friends and family, but maybe not to their SB.
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Thanks so much for your advise, with all your experience you could be a great help! I've upoaded another post needing advice :P x
DeletePlease don't go see someone on your own dime especially if you cannot afford to do so. Move on if they don't agree to at least compensate you before you for travel to see them. This guy could have stood you up. There are a lot of flakes out in the sugar world.
ReplyDeleteThanks! He said he would send me it through paypal, in his country public transportation is very cheap for students so didn't know. I have however other prospects as you will see in my newer posts! Take a look! And thanks for your advice, I will really need it throughout my journey for sure! xx
DeleteWow, that second pot sounded so promising. Don't be afraid about bringing up the fact that you want him to cover your time again - transportation at the very least. If he doesn't, then be very wary of ever seeing him again until you guys decide on a set amount (via email, txt, phone call, etc). You're a young, pretty girl and should NOT sell yourself short to this man who probably just thinks he can get whatever he want. You need to be strong and stand up for something (say an allowance of a certain sum). Don't be too stringent on what you want, but just make yourself clear.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the advice! Yes I did mention and he said he would send me the money via paypal, he said in his country public trasport is really cheap for students, but not where I live! I have other pots as you'll read from my new posts xx
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